If you’re used to the idea of weddings with bridesmaids, groomsmen, a maid of honour and a best man, you might be surprised to find that these roles don’t traditionally exist in a Greek Orthodox wedding. That’s because, in Orthodox tradition, the central supporting role is not a group of attendants but one, very significant figure: the Koumbaros (male sponsor) or Koumbara (female sponsor).

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The Koumbaros or Koumbara is far more than a “best man” or “maid of honour”, they are a spiritual sponsor and witness to the sacrament of marriage. During the ceremony, the Koumbara participates in sacred rituals, most notably by exchanging and crowning the couple with the stefana (wedding crowns), symbolising the unity and blessing of the marriage. It’s an honour rooted in centuries of Orthodox tradition, and one that continues long after the wedding day as a lifelong bond of support, guidance, and love.

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Because of this focus, traditional Greek Orthodox ceremonies don’t typically include bridal parties with multiple attendants. Instead, the Koumbaros or Koumbara stands with the couple as their main ceremonial support.

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That said, we’re blending traditions! While we’re honouring the Orthodox customs with a Koumbara, we’ve also chosen to include some very special people in our lives in more modern roles — like a best man and a maid of honour. These are all incredibly meaningful relationships to us, and rather than choose one tradition over the other, we wanted to reflect both.

 

Each of them plays a unique part in our story, and we’re excited to celebrate with all of them by our side.